Being a follower of Jesus is not about addition, but rather addiction.
It is not adding Jesus to a part of your life while leaving the rest of it unchanged.
It is a complete takeover of your patterns, desires and focus. An obsession with knowing, loving and conforming to him, at whatever the cost.
The kingdom of heaven is like treasure hidden in a field, which a man found and covered up. Then in his joy he goes and sells all that he has and buys that field.